A Deaf Child’s Mom


A Deaf Child’s Mom

I wonder how a deaf child’s mom feels, when she is unable to provide for her child. How does a mother feel, knowing that her child may not get an education, a chance in life; to be equal. Where nourishment and love does not extend, now what…nothing? Well, if you are a mom you know the answers. Every mom wants what is best for their child, but what if she cannot get the job done on her own. I see in most cases in Jamaica mothers are unable to provide for their children, who are deaf, because there are no jobs and no government help. A mother’s cry for help usually goes unnoticed and left only with one choice…the child stays home from school. Having a child who is deaf requires special care and parents need to be educated about how to speak and understand their deaf child. Deaf children are frustrated because they are unable to speak or hear, leaving them unable to communicate with their family. Due to their disability it is almost always impossible to make friends and they are, many times, rejected or abused by society.

On my recent visit to Jamaica, I saw a few young boys begging on the streets, not going to school. I asked them why and the answers were usually, ‘I don’t have any shoes, uniform, or clothes’. Seeing and hearing this makes my heart-break.

I wonder how a deaf child’s mother feels, when her prayers are answered. When there is hope for her child. How does a deaf child’s mother feel knowing that her child will get an education, and be counted, because of wonderful people who care? Can words express the strongest emotions that she would feel? In many cases, they are emotional and very thankful. Are we thankful of how fortunate we are?

 Now,  how would any mother feel? How would you feel?

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1st Annual March For The Deaf Campaign


1st Annual March For The Deaf

 

Dear Family and friends,

                     We are excited to report our 1st Annual March for the Deaf Campaign which is to raise awareness and funds to educate three wonderful young boys. As you know this project started with just one boy, Lolly, and we were blessed to have two additions to our family, Richard and Roshane. JDEP Inc. continues to search the island of Jamaica for young deaf boys and girls who are not attending school due to extreme poverty.

         The boys are doing great in school as you can see by the smiles on their faces. Please also visit our website at http://jdep.org for up to date information, marketplace for wonderful gifts, and an easy way to donate. All proceeds from items offered in marketplace will go directly to fund deaf education and are tax-deductible. Another easy way to donate is to fill out the enclose form and return in the self address envelope with any donation of your choice. I do hope that you will take a moment to take part in this worthy cause. This is just one step in making the world a better place. Thank you and may all your days be blessed. ‘Let’s Give Hands A Language’.

JDEP Inc.
754-224-0835
http://jdep.org
                                                                                 Sheryl N. Stark JDEP Inc.
                                                                                 President/Secretary

                  Calendar Of Events

February 14th
Be My Valentine: Please choose one child to make a donation to
Lolly, Roshane, and Richard.

  

 

 

 

 

Lolly

                                                                                                          Richard

 

Roshane                                                                                                                                                                                     

    

February
$10 Donation Gift
Deaf Awareness
Marketplace

March
Easter Outfits donation
$10 Donation Gift
Marketplace
Deaf Awareness

 April 1-11th
$10 Donation Gift
Deaf Awareness                                                                                              

 https://jdep.org/donate-2/

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Unveiled: Part Two


Unveiled : Part Two    

What is the Definition of Poverty

       Let’s see, poverty …ah, yes! Poor! That’s it, but wait, let’s see what the dictionary has to say. According to Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary and Thesaurus, one definition of poverty is ‘lack of money or material possessions’. Well, forget about material possessions, because if one does not have money, well you know…one is screwed.

            For some families there is no money to buy food, clothes, tissues, toothpaste…the list goes on. Most families resort to begging to feed their children, sacrificing self-esteem to send their children to school. And when things get worse, either go hungry for three days, go to school barefoot, no books, no pencils, and no lunch. Some houses have no running water, no bathroom with pretty little butterflies and flowers, and no kitchen. Most of the time families live together in one bedroom, in a hut looking house. Think about that for a second.

       What is the definition of poverty? Certainly not going one mile and oh hop into a car and bang! and the store is suddenly there, it’s walking four miles from school… barefoot. Poverty isn’t ten pairs of shoes…guilty…and then complaining about not getting the eleventh pair. Poverty isn’t the excess food and the excess waste. Well, I could go on.

          Poverty has no respect of persons and though my weakness maybe shoes, my strength is giving and sharing…and I know there are more of us out there. I know there are good folks who understand how fortunate we are in America. Let us come together, unite, join hands, help, pray, give and stamp out poverty. Let us pray for those of us who are less fortunate today, because I believe the definition of poverty; is not having one’s basic needs met.

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Help is Here…


 I am happy to report that another little boy started school yesterday on 1/11/11. Roshane is 14 years old and, he is now attending the CCCD at the Knockpatrick campus. I was told that, he was sad and he cried, but Lolly stepped in to be his friend. We also helped Rajjah with school uniform, shoes, and books, etc. so he can start school…but we are still working on getting him at the CCCD. If you would like to sponsor Rajjah please contact me at jdep4deaf@att.net, your help is greatly needed. Thank you all for your support. ‘One Love’.

 

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‘Can you hear me? Parenting the deaf child’


  Avia Ustanny, Freelance Writer

AUDREY BROWN is petite and self assured. Her daughter, Tanisha, seems as if she will be just like Mom in a few years. There is one difference between mother and daughter, however. Tanisha is deaf.

The birth of the child 10 years ago was happiness followed by emotional trauma at the discovery of hearing impairment. “I was traumatised. I was crying. It hit me real hard,” remembers Audrey. She took her baby daughter to the Jamaica Association for the Deaf and the Caribbean Hearing Centre, beginning a round of testing that ended in the conclusive diagnosis of deafness. Approximately 27,175 Jamaican children in the 0-9 age group, or five per cent of this population segment have some hearing loss. The challenges facing the parents of these children are numerous, ranging from the need for special education, to the cost of annual testing, transport and boarding for schools and dealing with the stigma attached to deafness in this society. The wider society is also cruel to the parents of disabled children, observes Lurline Headley, principal of the Danny Williams School for the Deaf, as they frequently conclude and express the opinion that the child’s plight is the direct result of something wrong that the parent did. Parents are also challenged to develop parenting skills suited for their deaf children. Audrey Brown, unlike many other parents in the same position, was able to accept the fact of her daughter’s disability when the diagnosis was conclusively made. “I took her to the pre-school at Danny Williams (School for the Deaf) and met others with same problem. That helped me a lot,” she said.

Audrey learned sign language at her daughter’s school, and bought books, dictionaries and videos to learn to communicate with her daughter. “I am still learning, it’s a continuing thing.”

The two travel abroad together. They play together: Tanisha enjoys biking and skating. “She is very outgoing. She likes to mingle with other people,” her mother says.

Mrs. Brown thinks that her daughter may become an accountant. “She likes mathematics.” She plans to send her abroad to school.

Professionals in the field of deaf education says that this willingness of the parent to accept the situation of their child is the most significant thing that makes the difference to their success or failure in integrating socially. Often, deaf children are emotionally rejected and deprived of books, food and other support willingly given to hearing children.

There is nothing abnormal in the emotions of the deaf child. They love and need attention as much as other children do. There is nothing wrong with their brain, either. Taught early, they can learn to communicate as well as others. Early acceptance of the fact that they have little or no hearing leads to better educational decisions also.

Babarba Thorpe, programmes director at the Jamaica Association for the Deaf, points out that deaf students have been doing well, scholastically, sitting external examinations and have been passing them. Several have received scholarships from the Co-operative Association of States for Scholarhsips (CASS) and have returned with associate degrees.

The hearing impaired in Jamaica are teachers, accountants, data processors, dental technicians, work in banking, and many other fields, Mrs. Thorpe indicates.

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Children of Jamaica: Part One


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These children represent our future…especially Jamaicans…and you know what each one does not have to be deaf. Just children…in need. I am sharing pictures of children who now lives in the housing scheme where I grew up. They are so adorable and are always happy when I visit. The team thanks you for your support…and remember to pass it on.

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Unveiled: Part One


Unveiled

Part One: New Year

By: Sheryl Stark

            What is more rewarding than helping a child go to school for the New Year? And that feels great!  Helping a child who is less fortunate, I believe, gives the world its’ heart beat.  It’s a universal heart, beating with love for all people. The project is picking up pace and I am giving thanks than I am blessed to be able to help out in the fight for deaf children. My actions will cause a change in the future, and so can anyone’s. Educating a child will always produce results, whether it may be the next inventor, scientist, doctor, president, nurse, or a better mom, dad, sister, or humanitarian. One of the smartest men living today, Stephen Hawking, is paralyzed, speaks through a computer, and is a talented and successful scientist. Marlee Matlin is an award winning actress, author, and spokeswoman for TV closed captioning. At 18 months she became deaf due to Roseola Infantum and that did not stop her from fulfilling her dreams. But the opportunity to attend school must be given to produce another Marlee Matlin. So, a deaf child living in Jamaica should be given the opportunity to attend school, because that is where education starts…right? Well, I wish it was that simple.

                                                 

               Now, one may say, ‘where are the parents?’ Well the answer to that may lie in Jamaica’s economic system. The way I see it is, tourism is one of the main sectors for foreign currency, but infrastructure is needed on the beautiful island of Jamaica. The wealth is not distributed, well you know, across the board evenly, which takes away the middle class. So, there are only poor and rich. My brother who lives on the island makes $9.00 a day! While at the same time I see Lexus, Mercedes, and Jags, the list goes on…and I haven’t even mentioned the houses. The problem is the poor do not have the funds or the opportunity to start anything and the Lexus owners are expatriates and returning citizens, who have come to enjoy the fruits of their labor, for very little. Inflation is the culprit here…de people dem wok hawd, fi litkle money, and pay high prices fi goods and services. Unemployment averaging 14.5% and on every block or so there is either a bar or a shop. On every block! Who’s buying! On my recent visit to Jamaica, I noticed that Jamaicans got up each morning and busted their butts just to make a dime. A dime that is hardly enough to sustain a family. Jamaica is a developing country that needs investors to invest in the country’s economy, with services like technological industries and goods like large scale agriculture; by providing loans to small farmers to increase their productivity and young entrepreneurs to own farms which will increase export and may in return stabilize the economy. Tourism alone will not close the huge gap. Why it is the way it is….is complicated, but the fact is, Jamaica’s economic system, as it stands, is leaving a lot of children out in the cold. So this is where JDEP steps in…sponsoring young deaf children to get an education, one child at a time. JDEP, also, promotes high self esteem, self respect, and the knowledge to know that they can dream large too.

           Dwight was the first child we sponsored. Even though he was out of school for four years, I saw that he was talented, but was unable to properly channel his amazing talents, because he was not attending school. Now, with this project he was able to start school, and is well on his way to catching up. Now, this next story broke my heart, Rajjah is fourteen and was abandoned by his Dad as a little boy…because he is deaf. He now lives with his Grandmother and Mother and has been out of school for one year, what kept him out of school…uniform, shoes, bus fair, and lunch money. We stepped in, hoping he will not be too far behind at school, and purchased Rajjah’s uniform, shoes, and other needs, and are looking forward to him starting school in January. Whenever it is the case, both parents are grateful and are involved in making sure that, their child attends school while signed up for the project. The team does do frequent follow ups, to ensure that each child gets 100% care by, visits to the school and with the parents, making sure each child has enough personal items and school supplies. During school breaks, parents are called just to touch base on the child’s welfare and to remind parents of the importance of reading during the break. The child is required to show progress, whether it maybe in self-esteem, academic, cognitive development, sports, and so forth.  In the mean while, there are so many more children that need our help.

                                                         

             The project helped these amazing kids attend school by receiving donations, fundraising, and the sale of hand made craft items…tams, hot pads, and dish cloths. We are gearing up for 2011, where the One Year Anniversary will kick off a year long of fundraising events and community services, here in the US and Jamaica. We have a skeleton schedule posted under the events tab, as of now, which involves wristband and jewelry sales, Easter egg hunt for the kids, International Deaf Awareness Month, jerk chicken competition, 50/50 raffle tickets, and many more! Also, on the agenda is giving back to the community by getting involved in local events, both here in the US and in Jamaica. I am hoping that everyone will join in, putting our effects together to create a positive change for ourselves and our children’s future. ‘Let’s Give Hands A Language’.

Jamaica Deaf Education Project Inc.

 

 

 

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Summer 2010 Jerk Chicken Fundraising


*Summer Jerk Chicken Fundraising 2010

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Fall Fundraising 2010


Fall fundraising was about 50/50 raffle and getting candies ready for Halloween. We sold tickets for one month and on my birthday held the drawing, at a local sports bar. It was an exciting month for those of us that participated. The outpour of children that were trick and treating was exciting. Thanks goes out to Jeff, Tisa, Marcia, Pat, and others for doing such a wonderful job. We raised enough money to have Dwight attend school for 1 year! Thanks everyone for such a wonderful and very supportive year. Let’s power on into the New Year and ‘Let’s Give Hands A Language’.

Here are some pics from the drawing. Enjoy

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Help For The New Year!


The Jamaica Deaf Education Project Inc., is reaching out to yet another family for the New Year. It has been a fantastic year and we are very excited to yet another child, who really needs our help, the opportunity for success…through education.

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